Love once Love twice. It's still the same!

Let's begin by saying, opinions differ and so do ideologies. Each of us, young or old, educated or not, possess the ability to create and destroy our own opinions on life.

Why should your life be similar to his? Why does she have to apply your suppositions of life to her own?
Why does anybody's life have to be identical?

Based on these questions, I wondered, "Why can't one be in love with two individuals at the same time"? Why can't affection be divided? Although, the degrees will sure differ.

The Phenomenon......in pointers. (Because let's accept it, paragraphs are lengthier and boring) 

• It's like 'rock and hard place'....just like Chandler said!
• If you are one of those that believes in the soul mates theory, you would definitely rule out the possibility of being in love with two people at once.
•  Love, is actually a fiddly subject, sometimes you have all of it and still feel empty; whilst at times, you have none and still feel happy!
• Sometimes, the universe hits you hard with the soulmate signs, and then you realize, 'infatuation struck like a lightning bolt'!
• Love is complex. Loving more than one, often calls for a strict inspection of the sentiments and the situation in particular.
• An incredible phenomenon life is. You will never have control over your ability to love two people at once, although some will try, against the law of nature.
• Haven't you been an unbelievable relationship, the 'out-of-mind romance' types...and one fine day wonder, if it really existed?
• In the battle of the mind and heart, in a very spooky way 'the mind' does show you the right way. The heart can be weakened.
• Never base your decisions on that of the societal norms. And not even on 'Google quotes' by great thinkers. It was their life, the quote fit them well. May not for you.

Oh! It happened!

You can never combine the heart and the mind in the same sphere. Complete opposites these are. Like the poles we have, like the sun-moon concept and other examples that you might have just thought of.
As the sage said.....the heart goes with impulses and the mind with reasoning.

If you love two, compare them. Use those two friends in despair, logic and rationale. Don't feel guilty about comparing the ones you love like some cut-rate outfits. It's required in desperate times. You may find it tricky to distinguish these two lovers, on the basis of who understands my silence and who surprises me the most, which one makes me laugh all the time and who thinks exactly the way I do. It is a decision that needs to involve the direction of your life; and only you know where you need your life to turn about. 

Is it really possible?

Oh yes it is. You can feel for two people at the same time. These two might contribute to gratifying two completely different needs. And hence, the dilemma. I mean, one may be a great listener and advisor, the other may know music just the way you want your prospective partner to.

If a mother can have two kids and love both equally, why can't someone else?

A not so common and common dilemma

As per my knowledge, there can be just one staunch reason to this dilemma. You are not able to vividly see the deeper issues yet, which can potentially put one in the negative and the other in the positive! Reach deeper, think about stuff. It's ok to over-think at times. (only at times)

When ripped in two, reach out to the intricate questions. The questions you have been running away from. Because, love for a person is not determined by choice, at times it is so because it is created for that purpose. The purpose to beat faster and slower for someone! (The insight is from a movie that I can't think of)

To tell or not?

Completely your call. Analyze. Do you really want them to know at the same time? Who would react and how? But no matter what, do not drag it long enough. 

Most of all....

Love and be loved. Make mistakes. It's ok to be wrong. You don't have to have it together all the time. Love two people. Experience the inexperienced. Feel good. Feel bad. Feel hurt. Be hurt. Create an illusion. Live it. Romance your hidden secrets. Smile all the time. And then, decide and move on. Love again. Live again.